Simple DIY Graduation Caps for Kids

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I can’t believe the end of our first year of homeschooling has come! My feelings on this subject are comparable to the ones I have about having children; while time seems to have flown by, I can’t fully remember life before homeschooling. What on earth did we do all day? It’s funny how you don’t realize how much free time you have until a few years later when you’re looking back at your previous life of freedom, wishing you had taken advantage of all those moments you could have been napping or eating chocolate.

While all the schools around us are doing their end-of-the-year festivities, we’re over here trying to hit all of our favorite spots as much as we can before the onslaught of children happens. Actually, my kids truly love a full park. It’s their introverted mom who prefers it empty/safe from potential kidnappers. (Have you seen all those videos of kids being snatched from their moms at the store? SCARY.) Anyway, the girls got to watch some preschoolers practicing for their graduation ceremony a few days ago and it immediately stirred up some feelings of discontent in my 5 year old. “I never got to have a preschool graduation!” Me: “Well considering you never went to preschool…..” Betsey: Tears. Me: “It’s okay, we can have our own graduation party tomorrow, okay baby?” Remind me to stop blaming their grandma for their spoiled attitudes.

So this morning I grabbed a few supplies we already had on hand and put together some pretty darn cute grad caps for my miniature homeschool alumni. We were still missing some party food so we jumped online and decided to test out these snickerdoodle cookies. They turned out delicious and I had two very happy little girls!

How to make you own cap

What we used:
scissors
ruler
3 pieces of construction paper
glue stick
tape
yarn

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Making the cap:
First, I measured the short side of the construction paper (mine was 9 in) and marked along the long side where I need to cut to make a perfect square. Cut two pieces of construction paper into large squares and glue them together with a glue stick. (Liquid glue would also work, just spread it thinly.) This gives the top enough strength to stay flat while the tassel hangs off the side. Set it aside.
Next, fold the third piece of paper the long way and cut along the fold. Glue the ends together to make one long piece. Wrap it around your child’s head to measure the right size and tape it together. Set it aside.

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Making the tassel:
Grab your yarn and cut a 6 inch piece and a 20 inch piece and set them aside; you’ll need these shortly. Holding the end against your palm with your thumb, wrap the yarn loosly around your hand. Stop wrapping when you have enough for your tassel to look the way you want it to. I wrapped mine about 40 times. Take your 20 inch piece and poke it through the top. Carefully pull the whole thing off your hand and tie the top in a knot. Now tie the 6 inch piece around the tassel and tie in a knot. One of the best tricks I learned for this part is to wrap the knot three times instead of two. It makes it tight and strong. Go ahead and cut the bottom. Trim as desired.

Finishing up:
Grab the top of the cap and use scissors to poke a hole in the middle. String the 20 inch piece through from the top, measure where you want the tassel to hang, then tape the end to the inside. Cut the excess.
Place the top of the cap down and connect the last piece with tape on the inside.

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And there you have it! An adorable DIY graduation cap for your little one.

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Congratulations grads!

Erin Fuentes

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The Benefits of Homeschooling with a Charter

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Charter schools are popping up all over the place. You may have seen one and wondered what makes it any different from a regular school? Charter schools are free, public schools for TK-12th grade that are not associated with a school district. They are funded by and accountable to the government entity (state, county, or district) that granted them their charter (a contract written by a legislative power granting specific rights and privileges to an organization.) All it has to do to keep its doors open is uphold the academic, financial, and organizational promises it made when it was granted its charter. These independently run schools are great options for someone who doesn’t want to send their student their assigned local school, wants smaller class sizes, or prefers the various teaching styles not available in regular public schools.

Our charter school offers a wonderful home study program. I can’t imagine trying to do this without all the amazing help they have given us! Some of the benefits we’ve received include:

  • Monthly meetings: Our Educational Facilitator (sort of like a school counselor) helps me plan each month ahead of time by putting together a checklist of what I plan to teach and helps me come up with ideas when I’m not sure which direction to go in next. I know this isn’t preferable for some people, but her knowledge and support have been SO helpful and I appreciate the fact that she respects my position as a teacher and mom and goes along with all the random subjects we choose to study! Although I don’t use tests with my children yet, I’ve appreciated our EF doing assessments with my daughter because it’s a huge confidence boost for her and proves to me how much she really is learning from home.
  • Free Curriculumand educational materials: We have access to a resource center full of a variety of curriculums and almost any educational materials you can imagine. Books, games, puzzles, manipulatives, globes, posters, microscopes, you name it. And the best part- I get to look through everything before we commit. Also, there’s no limit to how many consumable items (items that don’t need to be returned, like workbooks) that we can take home. If my daughter moves beyond her grade level in a certain subject or we realize that it’s just not a good fit for her, we can simply walk in and choose a better option without having to purchase another curriculum. We also get to borrow books and games until the end of the school year. We love the library, but this definitely beats their three week rental period and late fees!
  • Funds: In addition to free curriculum and educational materials, we are allotted a certain amount of EU’s, or $$$, that can be spent on authorized vendors. Some of our options include swimming lessons, rock climbing, tai kwon do, pottery, music lessons, dance classes, horseback riding, art supplies, tutoring, and even monthly subscription boxes like Tinker Crates and Raddish Kids. My kids (and my wallet) have LOVED this!
  • Field Trips: Kids like to get together with other kids! I happen to work in a daycare that I can take mine to, but many don’t have that opportunity. Field trips provide you the opportunity to take the kids out, maybe make some new friends, and learn something while you’re at it. Some of ours have included The LA County Fair, Medieval Times, a huge multischool event with the Anaheim Ducks, concerts, and museums.
  • Events: While there are outside events out there for homeschoolers, our charter school makes it very easy to get the kids involved in talent shows, science and art fairs, and school dances.

While the support our charter offers us is definitely appreciated, the main advantage is obviously a financial one! Charter schools do such a wonderful job of making sure you have everything you need to teach your children all the subjects of life.

Here’s what we got from our last Amazon order of the year. Yes, we really like art supplies!! This will definitely keep us going until the beginning of next year. Yay! If you’re interested, links to the items we ordered are listed below.

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If you’re interested in ordering any of the above items, please use the links provided so I can receive a small payment from Amazon at no extra cost to you! Thank you so much for your support. 🙂

Apple Barrel Acrylic Paints

Bug Bingo

Bird Bingo
 
Hello Nature
 
The 50 States

Prismacolor Colored Pencils

Honeysticks 100% Pure Beeswax Crayons

Sago Brothers Air Dry Modeling Clay

Gel Pen Trio

Glitter Glue

Crayola Markers- The Big 40

Paint Brush Set

What I learned in our first 6 months of homeschooling.

 

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Our decision to homeschool was made about 5 years ago. I was working as a caregiver for children with special needs and had an infant. After speaking with the families I worked with and spending months researching the topic, my husband and I agreed to stop vaccinating our daughter just before her first birthday. In California, religious and personal exemptions are no longer available upon entering public school or childcare. You either keep up with the vaccine schedule or you homeschool.

We didn’t realize it at the time, but our decision to homeschool was one based on fearIt was our last resort, our only option.

Fast forward 5 years to summer 2016. Betsey is 5 and ready to start kindergarten, but I hadn’t even thought about enrolling her in school. In a panic, I called the local school district to find out the current situation on exemptions. I left a message but never received a callback. It’s funny how God works isn’t it? Amazingly, I wasn’t freaking out about the fact that my daughter was supposed to start school in a few months and I had virtually no plan!

A few days after making that phone call, the name of the charter school I graduated from popped into my head. Hello! I called the school and got all the information I could on their home study program. I was nervous about their vaccine requirements, but as it turns out our charter is considered a “non-classroom public school” and vaccines are not required for home study or academy classes. I was so relieved and excited to start our new journey. The next month was spent putting together our homeschool classroom and back-to-school list. I was in OCD heaven!

I planned out everything we needed and where we’d get the best deals. I put it on the credit card because we needed all of it before the year began.

Have I mentioned yet that our third baby was due the week Betsey started school? HA! Again with the God humor. We got together with our EF (Educational Facilitator, like a school counselor) to map out our plan and pick up materials/curriculum for the first month. I didn’t have a preference for what we’d use so I let her decide what would be best to start with. We began our homeschool year two weeks early to allow time off when the baby came. I spent an entire Saturday putting together a detailed schedule with pretty color coated calendars complete with a lesson for each subject in each day’s box. It hurts a little to write that out because we spent approximately 5 minutes following that lesson plan. My sweet daughter’s excitement about learning had us crossing off 5 days of reading and math in the first hour. After a few days of doing a few assignments for each subject, I watched her excitement turn to exhaustion and frustration.

I learned quickly that asking my 5 year old to follow a lesson plan was a fantastic way to kill her love of learning.

I was so thankful to have learned that lesson before our new baby came! Our first few months of school were very minimal due to our new schedule and my lack of sleep, but I did my best to keep the kids excited with various crafts and activities that I found on Pinterest. Most days we worked on pages torn out of workbooks. I learned to let her work on one subject until she was ready to take a break or move on to the next. And if she was struggling to understand a concept, we’d get creative and work on it until she mastered it.

I had to let go of my expectations and be intentional in allowing her to feel like she’s in control of her learning.

Every moment until this realization was made I had been trying to control every aspect of our homeschool. I chose what we worked on, when we started, and what materials we needed to use. I was tired and overwhelmed trying to check off every box on the ‘what-your-kindergartner-needs-to-know’ page. I was bringing my newborn and 4 year old to Betsey’s morning swim lessons. Lessons that toward the end she didn’t even enjoy going to! Which brings me to my next revelation:

Realize when something isn’t working, and allow yourself to quit!

And when I say quit, I don’t mean at the beginning of next year, I mean as soon as you realize it’s not benefitting your family. In the beginning of the school year, Betsey was signed up for several weekly classes outside the home. Swimming, pottery, kids engineering.. She had a wonderful time in most of them but getting us all there on time was a major source of stress for me and ultimately led to grumpiness in all of us. Since freeing our schedule, we have had more time to dig deeper into what they’re learning and schedule the things we really want to be doing, like hiking with our nature group.

Our schedule isn’t the only thing that we minimized after the first few months. Over winter break I went through all the supplies. I threw away what we didn’t use at all and put out of sight the things we that don’t use often or need sitting out (construction paper, glue, paint.) This was huge because when a 4 year old sees scissors, she wants to use them; and she was eyeing those scissors multiple times a day for a good few months! We also purged their bedroom of all excess toys and have been working on replacing them with open-ended toys such as play silks and MagnaTiles.

My new approach to homeschooling is to keep it simple.

Kids are learning machines. Between the ages of 4 and 10, their brains are more than twice as active than adults’.  They are going to continue learning whether you provide curriculum or not. Their spongy little minds are constantly picking new ideas up and growing. It’s an incredible miracle to watch! I’m not saying our children don’t need our help to learn and grow, but that it doesn’t need to be something that causes anxiety. One of my favorite benefits of homeschooling is that there is no pressure to have certain concepts learned by a specific date. We get to take as long as we need to understand the concept and move on. If one of my children is curious about something unrelated to math or language arts, we get to put those aside a few days to allow them to explore their new interest. What a blessing!

In the last 6 months, I learned to rethink homeschooling. I no longer see it as our only option, but as the best option for our family. I’ve learned to appreciate the freedom homeschooling gives us and use it cultivate our relationships and interests. I see the world differently. My fears of my children growing up in this world have become dreams of hope and excitement for their futures. They get to decide what they like and have all the time they need to grow their interests into skills that will make them successful, no matter what direction they choose to go in. Again, what a blessing.

I’d love to hear your stories about how homeschooling has changed over time! Maybe your journey hasn’t changed much at all. Let me know in the comments!

-Erin

 

 

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Hello! Welcome to my new blog. I’m Erin Fuentes, a wife and mom of three in Southern California. I work part time at our church, run an Etsy shop, and homeschool our four and five year old girls. 

My dream for this blog is to help other moms enjoy the beautiful journey of homeschooling by adding bits of simplicitly and frugality to their lives. Although we’re only in our first year, I’ve already had the opportunity to encourage a few friends in their homeschooling journeys, allowing me to understand some of the fears that cause unnecessary stress on both the parents and children. Those conversations made me realize that I’m one of a small number of moms who isn’t constantly stressed, overwhelmed and battling homeschooling anxiety. This definitely isn’t just because of who I am! (Go ahead, ask my family!) I believe this is a direct result of some intentional choices I made when we began our homeschooling adventure. Choices that I am so excited to get to share with you!

Please leave a comment and introducing yourself. I can’t want to get to know and learn from you and your families!

-Erin